June 11, 2025

Life's Illusions and the Power of Self-Discovery

Life's Illusions and the Power of Self-Discovery
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Life's Illusions and the Power of Self-Discovery

In this enlightening episode, we delve into the concept of life as a construct, encouraging listeners to find peace amid the chaos of modern society. We explore the rapid passage of time, the reality of long COVID, and provide a preview of an upcoming in-depth discussion on this pervasive issue.

Our conversation expands to the evolving job market, where personal branding is becoming essential for employment, and delves into the fear and promises of artificial intelligence. The episode challenges the narrative around AI, emphasizing the importance of ethical guidelines and the dismissal of fear-mongering tactics.

Listeners are urged to question conventional wisdom, emphasize personal research, and embrace life's unpredictability. Focusing on self-awareness and small pleasures, this episode offers a grounding perspective on achieving happiness in an ever-changing world.

 

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Chapters

00:06 - Opening Reflections on June

00:51 - The Reality of Long COVID

02:49 - Navigating Job Changes

04:07 - Understanding AI’s Impact

06:35 - The Importance of Research

07:56 - Researching Information and Opportunities

09:49 - Finding Joy on a Floating Rock

Transcript
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Peace, peace, everybody. I just cross Koya Blue. Hope everybody doing all right. It's June.

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We got to June very fast. I mean, I look up and it's already June.

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I don't even know what happened.

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I'm like, dang, it was just May. So time is flying by.

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Might be something going on in the universe. I don't know.

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But today I want to talk about life, man. I mean, I've been,

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I guess you could say, on my own research journey about a lot of things.

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And I've been seeing a lot of people sick from something called long COVID,

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which I'm not going to talk much about that today.

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That's going to be on another another show. But if you don't know what long

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COVID is, please look it up.

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You know, it's basically after you catch COVID, the symptoms just linger on.

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Because remember, COVID is a it's like it gets into your joints and stuff is

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not just a cold where you just OK.

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You know some people it can get

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into their joints and stuff and they notice it if you're if

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you're aware of yourself and a lot of doctors don't

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really know about it so that's a whole nother thing but I am

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going to do a conversation about that I might have a guest that has

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long COVID I'm also dealing with long COVID but I'm not

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going to talk about that today but do look that up because that's another issue

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that's causing problems so I just

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feel like we live on a freaking floating rock in the middle of

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space and we're paying all these bills got these taxes you got

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all this stuff going on and everything's essentially made up

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you know I know a while back a Harvard grad told me well

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no it's it's a certain way it's a reason for this and a reason

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for that I mean there's no reason I mean everything's made up you know I'm saying

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if you said the banana was a way of currency the banana's gonna be way of currency

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it's just what it is they created a construct and we're in it until everybody

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sit down and decide not to do it we're gonna be in it so that's just it is what

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it is but how can we navigate our way through this.

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I mean right now you got a lot of people losing jobs and it hurts you know you

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you've been at a company for all these years you got all these degrees whatever

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the case is and the experience and you get laid off you try to get back out there then you.

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It's not a lot of good jobs, you know, or you got to chuck and jive.

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You got to be an influencer just to get a job now.

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You know, at one point, you know, if you're trying to be an influencer,

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a brand, whatever, it was just about trying to get movies or trying to get brand

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deals and stuff like that.

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But now even people that's just trying to get a nine to five,

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they got to build a brand now.

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You got to be on LinkedIn. You got to be on YouTube and showing that you're

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personable to the job, to the job, to the employer. You got to show them that

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you're a good person, I guess.

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Maybe they can feel some connection to you, you know, because that's what it's

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about. People hire who they feel comfortable with.

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And that's that. So, I mean, we're in a time where things are changing and things

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always continue to change.

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Change was going on for the longest time. So I can't say it's because of right

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now, can't say it's because of AI, because tech has been changing and improving

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over the years, and that's just what it is.

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But this whole fear mongering they're putting online on every YouTube video,

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AI is going to take your job. Oh, my God, bite all your fingers off.

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It's crazy work. Do I believe AI is going to come and do what it does and make

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things easier in a different way? yes.

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Do I believe that there's some things that haven't been set up properly with

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AI, like ethic rules, ethical rules, and stuff like that that needs to be put in place? Yes.

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But in the day, who's in charge of AIs? The big boys, the bosses.

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We can all look at something. We can work at a company. We can make good money

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and be like, yo, you're doing this wrong.

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And they can be like, are they getting in line or get out? That's just how it

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is, right? They want you to do what they want. They're the ones with the money.

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They're the ones with the pop.

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So there's not much we can do. But just like y'all know, someone in tech and

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someone that's actually studying AI, that these AIs are created,

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you know, they're models that's created.

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And if there's no rules set into that to make it fair and to make it,

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I guess you could say, non-evil, quote, unquote, whatever, then...

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We're going to be in trouble. Like, you have to set the boundaries.

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And they don't want to do that.

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They just want to put something out there and make money. And money's not even

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real. I mean, I don't know what we're doing.

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We're sitting here trying to throw these AI out.

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And you don't know what's going on. A lot of these cats in these high-up positions,

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they don't know what's going on. They're not studying this stuff.

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And if somebody does try to call them out on something and try to teach them

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something, they don't want to be taught nothing.

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They want everything out immediately i think if we sit down and

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really set up rules and

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and boundaries with the with artificial intelligence things could be better

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and we don't have to worry about it becoming an iRobot situation i mean right

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now it's not you know it's not any rule i mean except for in china i think they

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have like a robot hospital or hospital robots and stuff that's fine but,

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it's not like iRobot yet like the movie will smith if you haven't seen that go check it out,

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not like that yet can it get there I don't know I mean the

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thing is is that if it's all about the people there's evil

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people behind it and they want to let the robot do

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what it wants and not have any boundaries set into

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the code and built into it there's going to be a problem and that's just

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what it is so you just got to be ready for humans and robots I

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guess but that's something that you know a lot of these news people ain't talking

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about they're busy saying it's going to take jobs gonna eventually run the world

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and get you they're not telling you that the people that's creating these robots

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and AI models are the ones that's

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doing this. They're the ones that's letting the AI do what they want.

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So that's just my opinion on that. But please do research about that because.

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We do have to stay ready, so we have to get ready. I'm not saying don't educate

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yourself on artificial intelligence.

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I do believe that is coming, and you still need to know about it,

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and not just ChatGPT or just mid-journey and perplexity or whatever.

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You need to know the ins and outs if you're trying to, I guess, survive.

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You need to know how to build models, how to push out the models to the fast

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API and all these other things that come with it.

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And it's a lot to study. Don't get me wrong. There's so much going on.

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And heck, you're going to need ChatGPT to help you build these codes and stuff like that.

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Because when I was in coding program, I was a professional Googler.

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And this was before AI even came out. This was like 2020 before ChatGPT came

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out and before I could use it, you know, and stuff.

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So I was already just Googling.

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And so I just don't even understand it. You know, they'd be like,

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oh, well, Vibe coding and, you know, you get on AI and you get on ChatGPT and

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you're just creating code, you know, don't know what you're coding. Now, don't do that.

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I think you should know what you're coding and ChattopT can teach you that if

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you're trying to build something.

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ChattopT can tell you what it's doing and also Google can tell you what to do, too.

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So it's not like everybody's vibe coding. I think it should be called vibe coding

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for people that don't just putting stuff down, don't know what the heck's going on.

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People that's curious, like what I recommend on my channel, you know, stay curious.

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You're going to research what you're doing and you're going to be ready to talk

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about it. So, I mean, that's a whole nother thing.

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I mean, I just don't, I don't get, I don't get that. I don't get why people don't understand that.

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Do the research, know what you're talking about, and then go from there.

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That's what you do. Because everything before ChatGPT and Claude and them,

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it was dingo and Google and Stack Overflow to find the answers to put your code together.

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Because I'm going to tell you right now, trying to remember all this code from

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scratch, and especially in tech when you're not always coding.

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Like there's a lot of jobs in tech where you're not coding that much or you just, you're just like.

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Just doing something else besides coding, you know, you're not,

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you're not doing it all the time, depending on your, your job title and what you, what you do.

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So to me, it's like, you could forget what the heck to do. And,

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or you might try a new language you never tried before. And it's not the same as Python.

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Everything's different. So, I mean, those are some things that people got to think about.

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I mean, I don't think that that's talked about enough, but it's okay to Google.

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It's okay to try to get the answers for things.

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And, and before I, And also one of the things I want to talk about before I

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come off of here, because I just came on here for a quick chat.

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I want to talk about the fact that when people tell you stuff,

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if you're trying to figure out something, let's say you're trying to buy a house

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or trying to get a car or anything like that.

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And someone tells you something, say you can't do something or just tell you

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information. Go look up the information.

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Always research the information that someone tells you. Don't just listen to

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what they say because they either have this big degree or either they they've

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been doing it for 80 years and you just want to believe them.

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Always research because every sometime people just say stuff to say stuff and

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they don't really know because I just basically dealt with that.

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We're like, I mean, I'm not going to tell a story, but basically someone told

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me something several times over a few months, like people just tell me shit

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and it just be coming out the side of their neck. They don't know what they're

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saying. They're just talking.

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So to me, now I definitely make it my duty to research.

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And I knew this in my 20s. I knew this back in the day, but I think I just didn't

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want to believe in myself because I was more insecure in my 20s.

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But when you get in your 30s, you just be like, well, I ain't gonna say everybody,

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but some people, they become self-aware. They start tapping in and saying, you know what?

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Let me research what you just said. Let me make sure that's true.

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And so anytime you're trying to get information, researching,

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if you call somebody and try to get information from a company,

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one person say this, call back two more times, make sure the person say the same thing.

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Because I've learned too that I've been able to get opportunities because I

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called back two times to see if that was true.

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Because people talking outside their neck is at a job as well.

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If you feel this imposter syndrome, get rid of the imposter syndrome because

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everybody's trying to figure something out.

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Some people are just got dang on more confident and they come off more confident,

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but they don't know everything either.

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So even if they say something, research what they said when you're at work.

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Don't believe everything everybody say, you know, and that's that.

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And so that was really my take for the day. We're on a floating rock.

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Life is short. Try to figure out a way to enjoy yourself, the little things,

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whatever you can do to bring some joy and just know that everything you're,

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but the relatives or whoever puts stress on you as if you got this big job,

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you got this big car, now you're important.

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But that doesn't mean nothing. We're all gonna die, bro. Like all this stuff

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is, you can't take the car with you.

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Enjoy the car while you have it. Do what you gotta do. If you don't have the

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car, still enjoy your life because none of this is real, bro.

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It's all made up, man. And that's just the bottom line.

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So I just want to tell somebody that just in case you feel behind in life,

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like you feel like you can't get somewhere.

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If you want to get off social media for a little bit, get off of it.

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Hey, I always say, if you don't have a business, I mean, I don't see the point

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of social media besides like YouTube and stuff. You do need to stay aware of what's going on.

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I do think YouTube is great, but you don't need to be on all of them.

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You know, be on two that you like the most and get the information you need

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and, you know, share what you want.

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But don't feel like you got to be everywhere and be constantly,

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you know, fed all this information. It's just overload, overload, overload.

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You know, you take some time to just go outside and just breathe and think and

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know and touch the freaking ground.

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Know that none of this is real and anybody trying to make you feel like crap

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right as your relatives I don't care who it is I don't care if it's your friends

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I don't care always believe in yourself and know that you do what you need to

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do for you because we all can do what someone else is doing,

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you know you can go on YouTube tomorrow and be trying to do what they doing

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you know somebody like oh get rich you know in five minutes and all this stuff

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telling you telling you to just give them a hundred dollars they'll teach you

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the game you can give somebody a hundred dollars and you still can't get the game.

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Everybody is different. Every situation is different.

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Don't feel like you're behind anything because we're on a floating rock and

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I keep stressing. I can't stress that enough.

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Just live your life the best way you can. Figure out what you need to do for

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you and then go get it because that's it. It don't matter how long it takes.

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It may not be overnight like Johnny might have done something and he's rich

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overnight, but it doesn't mean that you can't eventually get to where you want

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to go. If you don't want to be rich, that's fine too.

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Just live your life have a good have a good time and

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then try and enjoy the little things because little things to me

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it's more important than the big things and that's

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what I want to say today I just want to talk about I just want to give somebody

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some word of it some words of encouragement some little advice from things I've

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noticed in my life and I just hope that this resonated with somebody if it did

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please leave review on apple if you listen on apple just leave review wherever

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you listen to this podcast at because I wanted to get out there and it helps

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the channel get out there.

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So until next time, everybody stay safe out there. Stay curious.

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Keep your head on the swivel. Peace.